You need a thick skin to be fashion forward

Fancy huh?

2010-09-13T11:04:00.001-07:00

I used the last bit of my birthday shopping binge money on these two HOT items. I love the ruched sleeves and neck detail on this caramel leather jacket.The shoes...I mean do I really have to say anything? They are banging. I will most certainly make sure when I walk out of the house in these that I have "everything did".

Casual Cool

2010-09-13T10:32:00.000-07:00

So fall is coming! And that means the two B's: Boots and Birthday! I usually spend every extra penny I have on my daughter, but since I have a birthday soon, I had some gift money to spend on just me! So of course I focused on boots first. The weathered brown boots are perfect with t-shirts, sweaters, and hoodies. I love the contrast of a weathered boot with a feminine top or tight fitting pants. The green skull tee is just for fun. I wanted black flat boots with a detail and found this great pair which can be casual or slightly dressy while remaining comfortable. I was lucky to snag this grey cargo jacket. It goes with anything and is perfect for the transition from summer to chilly fall mornings and nights. Fall is my favorite time of year because you can still look sexy with plenty of clothing on. That's something I think a lot of ladies need to understand. You don't need to show skin to be sexy. Like Method Man said, "Even if I'm locked up north you in the world, rocking three-fourths of cloth never showing your stuff off, boo..."

Today Was A Good Day

2010-06-29T19:07:00.000-07:00

Today was the kind of day where good things just continued to happen for reasons unknown. And one of those pertains to my closet. I dropped off some things I did not want anymore at a consignment shop. The shop then proceeded to lose all of my old clothes and so in return offered me some store credit. So I scored these adorable things for free! My old stuff was worth the two bags alone. The blue one is great for work- or in my case, a serious school day- while the iridescent sparkle bag is perfect for a night out. I love the chain earrings and flower bracelet, both perfect for the summer heat. Cork shoes are really popular yet again this summer. This pair will be great for dresses or capris/ the capri and wedge look is great. This warm, sunny ruffle dress is thin enough to not add on any extra width to the body and could work for day or night. Karma has been dealing me a pretty good hand lately and I'm not sure why but I'm going with it. Free stuff is always welcome here, but especially when it's free stuff you can wear!

Luck of the Devil

2010-05-04T18:41:00.000-07:00

So I skipped church but found these...

Brand New Blues

2010-04-27T20:18:00.000-07:00

Do you ever buy something and just let it sit in your closet? You were so excited about it in the store and when you got it home, you carefully hung it up and savored the fact it was yours. But then a curious thing happens. You just never quite find a time that feels right to put it on. So it stays exactly the same as the day you brought it home. And then, as more time passes, you start to resent it, because you wonder why you ever chose it in the first place. And eventually, you either try wearing it, or toss it just to get it and the disappointment out of your head for good.

*personal tip* I think it's often a good idea to choose the thing you like second best. The thing that catches your eye with excitement might not always be what ends up being most loved. And that can be true for so many things....

Bohemianemia

2010-02-23T11:52:00.001-08:00

Okay, so you may be wondering about the title. I'm referring to how Bohemian style is not simply just a passing trend. It's in our blood. Humans have always sought comfort and ease when it comes to fashion. Think loin cloth. Or toga. Hello?! As if anything could be more free and easy. Today's bohemian style may be everywhere, but you can choose carefully which pieces are right for you. I love aged leather bags. This small green one fits just the things you need- phone, wallet, lip gloss. Why drag down your free flowing mind and body with anything larger? There are a ton of ornate print dresses out, and almost all of them are beautiful- easy one. A powder blue peasant top will keep you cool all day and welcome you into sunset. Crop tops are coming back in, so do some crunches. This green silk one was a lucky thrift store find.Get loose with your inner bohemian. Just please pass on the patchouli.

Think Pink

2010-02-15T13:01:00.000-08:00

Believe me or not, pink will be the hot color of spring. And I am talking about the softer, subdued pink, as in cotton candy. Pink is no longer cute and is transforming into sexy as we speak. Go out and get your pink now so you'll be ready. I have not yet been able to find a huge selection. I would like a pink bag so if anyone knows a good place I can find one let me know. This baby doll shirt is the essence of sexy spring. When wearing baby dolls, you must be careful to pair them with tight jeans as to not look frumpy. They only add to your mid section, so be very careful. But a baby doll shirt, paired with a tight pant and the perfect sandal can leave you looking sultry, giving just the right balance of sweet and sweat that the weather brings. Which brings me to the shoe. What compliments pink in spring better than cream? Nothing. These cream leather sandals are perfect for skinny jeans, skirts or dresses. They are casual enough to be comfortable, but the heel gives you the sugary sex appeal. Combining pretty pinks and soft creams this summer will leave you looking as yummy as a milkshake-you'll bring all the boys to the yard.

Sprung

2010-02-03T08:33:00.000-08:00

Being stuck inside has prompted me to do the next natural thing- think about Spring/Summer. Here are some things I am excited to wear this year. First, these shorts are adorable! I will get a lot of wear out of these. Shorts are usually not my thing, but the braid detail sold me on these. I also think that the cuff makes them more feminine. The yellow bikini is perfect! The ruffles are playful and sexy. And last, the grey tank with stars is nostalgic of the Express shorts we wore when we were in Jr. High, and I like that. The flowery skirt is a great piece that can be used 1000 different ways. These items have me excited about the warm weather and the possibilites to come. And I am also getting back to my own style that feels so comfortably "me". And that warms me up a little right now, even with the 2' of snow stil piled up all around me.

Hanging By a Thread

2010-01-21T11:08:00.000-08:00

Today I am wearing the sweater I wore the day I found out my husband was having an affair. I though about trashing it. If only it wasn't such a great color or so cozy soft. But beyond that, I wanted to keep it to remember that I am stronger than letting those that hurt me keep me down. The first love of my life and I broke up while I was wearing this extremely hot red dress. It was mid calf length, tiered, and hugged my body just right. I got rid of that dress because I thought it would help erase the pain of that night. But that was a banging dress! And sometimes I wish I still had it... And this is a great sweater. We may not be able to hold onto people in this world, but thank God our clothes will always be there for us!

Oh No She Didn't!

2010-01-16T16:50:00.001-08:00

Oh yes I did...and it felt goooood.

Bootilicious

2010-01-12T07:00:00.001-08:00

Here are some of my boots for fall/winter. I apologize for such a late post, but I have been very busy, what with moving across the country and all. My philosophy is simple. Cold=boots. Boots are so wonderful that there is no other shoe that can compare to their practicality in winter. And combine that with the fact that there are so many pairs of kick ass boots to choose from. I don't see why you would want to wear anything else? At least from November to March... Sidenote: when I wear boots I always feel like I don't have to take any shit from anyone. Like if a mugger approached me I could cripple them with one stylish boot to the balls. And that's just a bonus for me.

The F Word

2010-01-01T11:22:00.000-08:00

I just have to say...I would not be caught dead in public in it, but fleece sure is nice in the privacy of my own home. How can something be so soft? It's like a freaking cloud!

Warm and Fuzzy

2009-12-25T19:52:00.000-08:00

Have you ever had something for a very long time and just realized how much it means to you? Sure you have...

Well, that is how I feel about my winter coat. I got this baby at Goodwill for my trip to Europe in what I think was 03'? Spotty memory. Anyway, the packing for this trip was insane for someone like me because you basically had one bag for 5 weeks. And a lot of the places we went, especially Russia, it was cold as hell. This coat fits me perfectly. When I bought it, it had plain black buttons. During the trip, one by one they popped off and were left behind until they were all gone. But I was having the time of my life so I didn't notice. When I returned home I went and picked out these fancy buttons, which made the coat absolutely perfect. I often get compliments on this coat, which cost me $7. But, I think, it's not the wool and silk lining that make this coat priceless to me. It's that this coat is one of the only material things that tie me to the memories I made there. And sometimes I think that I wish I was still there, walking those unfamiliar streets with some of my favorite people. Maybe I am just wishing for my next adventure. And hopefully, it will be cold there and I can add some more nostalgia to my coat.

All That Glitters

2009-11-28T19:40:00.000-08:00

These bangles make me happy. Only $4 at your local...that place where you can get everything you need but usually end up with tons of things you will never need...with all the smiley faces.

Told You So...

2009-11-28T19:19:00.001-08:00

Okay, so I said that I would only wear thrift store clothes for the next year. And of course I will add the disclaimer that this will only be mostly true. Have you ever seen Princess Bride? Mostly dead? Anyway, here is my first round of "booty" from pillaging the local Goodwill. I'm on a pirate kick that will hopefully last the rest of my life. First up is this rad blue straw clutch. For a classy lady! Then I found this great cardigan with military style buttons.

Next up is the quintessential Goodwill sweater. It's warm, fuzzy, and oddly striped. The button is what did it for me.

Then I found this sweet grey embellished cotton top. Great for the colder seasons when grey works best.
And last down below a pirate shirt (yeah I was serious). I hope to pair it with a thick belt, sword, and Johnny Depp. Uh huh...

Bare Necessities

2009-11-22T19:09:00.000-08:00

I have a belief that a girl needs only two things in life: a good head on her shoulders and some sexy undergarments. Sure, it's fun to dress the outside that everyone gets to see. But never forget to pay special attention to your "delicates". First and foremost, you will feel great knowing your are hiding such a fun little secret. And second, whomever you do decide to share it with will really, really appreciate it.

Ewww

2009-10-29T13:05:00.000-07:00

If I ever put Helmi in anything even remotely close to this, you have every right to back hand me.

Dress To Impress?!

2009-10-29T10:47:00.000-07:00

I feel like ranting today, so instead of bothering my friends and family in the middle of their work day, I'll take it out on this defenseless blog. Considering the fact that...well the FACT that how you look "matters" in society, I am faced with a few roadblocks to finding love again. I see myself as being decent looking, not extremely good looking, but not what I would define as ugly. I like to say, and actually believe, I am not extremely pretty, but I am very sexy. And that's how I feel inside. So there's my palette...and then I am working with my style. This has been where the comments have flooded in my entire life. I remember Jr. High, when one of my favorite outfits was my camo fitted tee, electric blue wide legged pants, and Vans. This made me feel happy. Problem is, even though I got plenty of dates, there were complaints from the opposite sex. My step brother, who was 2 years older and cooler by default, said to me, "My friends said you would be a lot hotter if you just dressed normal." Awesome- just the vote of confidence an awkward teenager needs. Then in college, I found myself conforming...I straightened my natural curls, joined the masses of bleach blonde hell, and wore "normal" slut...I mean girl clothes. And guess what? It sucked! **I did end up falling in love during this time, and what is interesting about that is that there was no appearance to "get past". This guy got to know me and we had a great relationship that later ended for different reasons. The only thing he ever mentioned was that he wished I would wear jeans more instead of dresses. You can never please them all.** So when I finally smartened up, got into my art program, and started to dress as me again...guess what? More peanut gallery. I had a guy I really liked who would always comment on my outfits. Like my bright teal taffeta wedding heels w/ my white tiger bedazzled baseball shirt. He said I looked like I was wearing "costumes". True, some of my wardrobe does have a theatrical flair, but who was this dude to say so? (and why couldn't he see we were meant to be together? Ha.) And then once I was unhappily married, my husband NEVER like anything I wore. And he was not afraid to say so- over and over. Still I pressed on, because choosing clothing that I liked made ME happy. And that's all that matters right?
Oh...no? You mean, I might have to tone it down to find someone who loves me? This is debatable. Even though I find that I get more smiles and hellos on the street when I'm dressed more mainstream, it also points to a sad fact. That most men out there are playing it safe. And that is not what this girl is looking for. So I will wait it out for a man who will proudly have me on his arm, whether I'm wearing my Mr.T necklace, lime green flower headband, or red pleather pants. That last one was just a joke...

First Instinct, Second Hand

2009-10-27T06:16:00.000-07:00

This year has brought a lot of awakenings to the surface for me. I got out of a terribly unhappy relationship. I picked up and moved on and the most amazing thing happened. I started to remember what makes me happy. I started to get to know me again. I am waking up from a fog and rediscovering the people, places and things that make my heart content. Getting to the fashion portion of this was tough. I looked around at my clothes scattered on the floor and realized that I had "settled". Much like everything else in my life for the past four years, my wardrobe had become complacent. And anyone who knows me, knows that complacent is not my style!
So I decided to get back to my instincts! I have always been a thrift store blood hound. I can find an entire year's wardrobe in one day of Goodwill hopping. So, it's time to get back to my primal nature. Who can tell me that I should be a slave to fashion? No one! I once told a friend that the worst thing you can lose is your self esteem. It's time to get that back. And the only way to do so, is to be "you" as much as possible.
The end of 2009 marks the beginnging of getting back in touch with myself, and making myself happy again. That means reconnecting with people I love, making art, and expressing myself with my own unique flair.
For the next year 2010-2011, I will wear only what I find at thrift stores. I will cut and sew and patch and paint and whatever else it takes to achieve the looks I want, without the mainstream hassle. I'm getting primal, and that might just include peeing outside (again).

Fashion Statement

2009-08-14T05:48:00.000-07:00

It's on a t-shirt, so I feel the right to plug it on here. And as for this actually happening...well why not?

Personal Shopper

2009-07-28T16:08:00.001-07:00

These pictures are tiny I know...I apologize! Anyway, one of my favorite ways to mix up my clothing is to create some of it myself. I love making t-shirts. It's kind of a form of therapy for me, and what better way to get your feelings out than to "wear them on your sleeve"? Most people know I have no problem expressing my opinion. Sometimes it's how I'm feeling about a situation, and other times I just pick a fun word or picture. However, I try to stay away from message tees that were made by anyone else. I think the only one I can remember buying commercially was "Strangers have the best candy" and I mean, who could resist that one? But the rest of those generic thoughts can stay off of my body, because they are not my thoughts. I picked a ball cap (note: NOT A TRUCKER HAT!!!!) because I thought it would be cute to sport one on casual errands. Maybe it's just another way for me to get on my soapbox, but I think putting your own messages on your clothing is a fun, theraputic way to express yourself. Try thinking of things that make you laugh, or digital images that send you to a happy place. But please, if you "heart blah blah blah" or think "such and such people suck", keep it to yourself.

Vintage Vixen

2009-07-03T18:43:00.000-07:00

I compare vintage to vegan. I wish I could go all the way vintage. It would be so good for my pocket book, while forcing me to be more creative with my look. But buying those brand new clothes with the tags, knowing no one else has worn them is like biting into a juicy steak. Still, I have definitely put in my time in countless thrift stores. I can remember when I was ecstatic to fill up a garbage bag and pay $50 for my "back to school clothes" in jr. high. Some of those tendencies are still with me. I can still linger in a Goodwill far longer than any of my friends want to. To me, it's like a treasure hunt and nothing should be left undiscovered. Needless to say, when I found a huge thrift store near my work, I made time to go by and scour the place. I found some great jewelry there, and of course- cheap! The gold and cobalt blue necklace would go great with a sundress, while the colorful beads are best with a tank and jeans. I love the gold hinge with the button detail for going out. The blue pearl clasp bracelet is the perfect accent for a chocolate brown jacket this fall. I will always shop at thrift stores...it's something I love, but like I said earlier...I will always have a taste for red meat too.

Date Night

2009-06-27T16:49:00.000-07:00

I bought a "date night" dress. Since I am newly divorced I think I have forgotten what real dates are like and am basing my outfit choices on crap like the Bachelor. Since I ordered this red tiered tube dress online I had no idea how teeny tiny it was. In fact, I think my first reaction was, "Is that a dress???" So I tried it on and it wasn't as skanky as I had envisioned. In fact, I convinced myself that I had balls to wear this dress. That in this dress I was making a statement. I was saying, "World of dating I am taking you on!" The rhinestones are for the pure and simple fact that I enjoy being a girl and I am not ashamed to admit it. I like to go out and dress like a movie star. I named my child a strange name, I have done my share of unexplainable things that people gossip about! In some obscure countries I may already be a star. But let's just hope the morning after I wear this little scrap of material I don't end up being found in a dumpster because that is the wrong movie.

Me I'm Supa Fly

2009-06-27T16:36:00.000-07:00

So, something about "throw back" stuff turns me on for summer. This stuff screams 70's to me. And yes, that is a blue jumper! I tried to resist them but they are too cute. I'm not expecting to pick up a whole lot of guys in this number but you never know who's freaky. Pumas have also always been a favorite of mine. Not too mainstream, pretty comfortable, so of course I could not leave these orange ones behind at the store. I suggest gettin' down with this era's groovy style. C'mon everybody and let's do the hustle!

I Got Stripes

2009-06-27T16:27:00.000-07:00

Don't know if anyone would get the Johnny Cash song reference, but since I heard it last night... Anyway, it's getting to be that time in summer when I am sick of trying to be cute all the time and want to bum it out some. So what I suggest is some relaxed and fun stripes. You can pair these with white jeans and sandals for a beachy look. Or throw them on with a jean skirt and espadrillas for a day outing. I can't think of any way you could get away with wearing these out- so let's not go there or you'll look like some confused emo chick. Alternative should only be a lifestyle in my opinion and not a style. But everyone has their opinions. So try on some stripes for a laid back summer day. But maybe just don't pair them with chucks and blast Nirvana...so 90's. (Nirvana still kicks ass...but you know what I mean)

Summertime Blues

2009-05-30T19:53:00.001-07:00

Blue is a color that is often forgotten during summer, and I'm here to say "Why!!?" Blue is just what summer needs! It's like that sudden rain that gives you a break from the intense heat- soothing, cool, and refreshing. Of course, I am set in my ways, and so do not take this next comment too offensively...BUT...I don't think "navy" counts as blue. So, with that said, blue shouldn't be taken for granted like the friend who will always listen to your problems, even if you wake them up at 3 am, or the nice guy who takes you out to eat and gets nothing in return every time... Blue deserves better. This color should be worn proudly in summer, to some of your hottest social events. Pulling off blue in hot temps will up your sophistication and others will be intrigued by the girl who dares to be different. So, give blue the respect it deserves in these hot months...at least on the first couple dates.

The Other Shoe Dropped...Now Where the Hell Do I Put It?

2009-05-30T19:50:00.000-07:00

Poptart Revenge (NO PICTURE!)

2009-05-27T10:51:00.000-07:00

When you wear a bad outfit you get the same feeling as when someone opens a public bathroom stall on you in "the position". You feel gross, shamed, uncomfortable...It's a fact that everyone makes bad fashion decisions once in a while. Even the most perfect dresser will pull a "WTF were they thinking?" I would like to believe that the more hopeless the attire during these times, the more creative or cool the person. I think I might just be full of it though. I guess there is no crutch for wardrobe malfunction, but here is my latest disaster:
Black flats, long black yoga skirt, slinky rust, black and brown geometric print top, hair back....I don't even think I wore jewelry. I kept thinking I looked like one of those women that were taken from those radical religious ranches. I felt disgusted all day. The long skirt should never be worn to work!! Not to mention a jersey yoga skirt! And the top was one of those terrible, predictable "work tops" that all women have...3/4 sleeves, crap print, modest. The flats were designed to go with jeans or casual items. This whole ensemble was a flop! But I honestly believe no matter how hard we try, all of us will end up involuntarily choosing style armageddon periodically. I think it's our body's little way of getting revenge for us feeding it too many poptarts or something.

Wearing Out Your Welcome

2009-05-21T08:49:00.000-07:00

I would love to know what people are tired of. I try to make it a rule that I never tell anyone that they should absolutely not wear something any more. Things always seem to have a way of coming back around. I mean, even hammer pants for God's sake, are gracing the runways lately. But let me be clear that I think what is in/out is all personal opinion. A woman with true style can make it work, whether it's the 1st or 101st you've seen. So, just for fun, here are my own personal things I am giving up...for now. If you plan on hanging onto these items, well then all I can say is rock it out:

1. Charm necklaces- especially hearts, birds, and never owned this one, but ivory tusks?

2. Anything that buttons are a non-functioning accessory- these are like the "baby doll look" dresses...and yes I owned one.

3. Leggings- I know they are still in popular demand but I am leaving the theatre before the movie is over on this one.

4. Oversized bags- The ones I have will now be used as overnight bags or given to squirrels to live in (since we are wrecking all the trees and such)

5. Things that say "Peace" or have the symbol- I think we all get it.

Those are my top five. Like I said, someone could probably compile an outfit using every item on the list above and I wouldn't hate on it. It's just these kinds of things are not my bag baby.

White Power

2009-05-20T20:24:00.000-07:00

Okay, I know the title is sketch, but anyone that knows me knows I am never afraid of a joke and absolutely in no way racist. So anyway, no matter what color you would like to wear all summer, there is nothing better than white. And because of this, you can't have too much of it. This is contradictory to what I would say about almost any other thing...that you need moderation. But white is so fabulous in the sun, against tanned skin, and on a hot night out, that it weakens even the strongest fashion senses. I was having a conversation with someone the other day about flower applique' tops and I remember saying, "I mean, how many do you have already? If you have more than two do not buy another one." What I forgot to mention is that this does NOT apply to white. Load up on it. You only get to wear it for one season. It's not appropriate in Spring or Fall (that's what I say) and in Winter it's a totally different ball game. White brings out the ultimate in your softer side and leaves us all feeling like fresh daisies. Maybe that's a bit overboard, but you get it by now. White looks great on everyone. So, in the words of many ignorant rednecks, "Get you some!"

Out of the Closet Pics

2009-05-20T20:12:00.000-07:00

Like I promised, here are some outfits I would wear out if I

just HAD to wear my long shorts.
And here in New Orleans, where it gets extremely hot, I'd say the shorts aren't such a bad idea. See how I paired them with either a super sexy night club top and pumps (top) or a delicate, flowing blouse and natural heels (bottom). For both I chose footwear that should be shown off instead of plain shoes that can be covered with pants. These shorts give opportunities to showcase legs and shoes. I would wear either of these outfits during night or day. The shorts say "daytime" but the hot summer nights help looks like these seem sultry, like that sweaty model at the old abandoned gas station. Okay, enough lesbian shorts for one day! But I have been thinking about renting the Labyrinth one night...

Out of the Closet

2009-05-20T12:20:00.000-07:00

Now before you get all offended...let me say that I am not homophobic whatsoever. That being said, there is no doubt that bermuda shorts are chosen by lesbians more than any other warm weather item. If you are in a public setting and you see a group of women all wearing bermuda shorts, chances are they are lesbians. But us straight women have recently wanted a piece of the long shorts pie. Maybe our backsides aren't what they used to be and it's no longer acceptable for the public to see all four of our cheeks. Or maybe we just want a different look every now and then. Either way, we are down with these shorts and men HATE it! I have ideas for another post about what men hate that we love to wear...but these shorts are definitely topping the list. So, how can we make them sexy? Some suggestions: Keep them fitting tight- not smoosh your ovaries tight, but adding nice shape to your thighs. Also, try them with heels. This may help you still feel feminine. It seems odd that we are seeking out clothing that is unflattering, because we have been trained since birth to be pretty at all costs. What draws us to these shorts? This continues to be a mystery, but it compares to the weird feeling in my stomach I had when I saw David Bowie's junk protruding out of those leggings he wore in Labyrinth. Does anyone remember that? I was traumatized! Anyway, is it the strange feeling of "trying on" a more masculine style that attracts us? I'm not sure- but almost every woman I know owns a pair- or two. And every one of those women(that are straight) feel guilty about this ownership. So, I'm not saying you shouldn't feel bad about wanting and wearing the shorts- they are androgynous and even downright hideous sometimes! Feel bad- wear them anyway, because you want to. But do your best to dress them up so we all won't feel sick and be reminded of Bowie's junk.

Meanwhile I will post some pics tonight of how I wear these...unless I freak out and get rid of all of them.

Drug Habit

2009-05-12T20:16:00.001-07:00

I have a habit of always picking a new shade of polish when I go to the drug store. These are some of my fav colors for summer. Especially the glitter pink. Who says adults can't wear glitter? I mean, look at Diddy! Anyway, I love to paint my toenails. With all the adorable sandals of summer, polish is just one more way to enjoy being a girl.

Beach Beeotch

2009-05-12T20:03:00.001-07:00

When we are in high school, and even college...we think of swim suits as being totally separate from our fashion lives. I mean of course we want a cute, barely there swim suit. But when we mature, and I'm not going to say how "mature" I am presently (wink!), we should incorporate accessories not out of necessity, but to enhance our beach look. For instance, I decided to purchase this adorable melon crossover purse to carry with my new funky swimsuit. In my younger days I would have put my beach crap in any old ratty bag I could find. But now, I realize how nice it is to have a great purse to accent my look. And as long as I don't have two asses, I may wear the suit all day- so why not add a little zing to it? So dress it up everywhere, even in the sand.

Pick Ups

2009-05-12T19:50:00.000-07:00

What is your shopping style?
I have found that most everybody has one. Mine goes something like this: Carefully walk around the store, examining each and every thing to the point of frustration. Then, after about an hour or so, something else takes over and I immediately rush through and grab the things that I have pondered over the most. This happens, literally in about 2 minutes. It's a rush...but I don't think that's why I do it. I think it's just my "shopping style". So figure yours out and learn from it. I have learned, for instance, that I usually end up enjoying the things that I liked second best in the store, as opposed to what first caught my eye. These things tend to have more longevity in my wardrobe. The pics above are the results of my latest trip to a local mega store. I won't mention names because I hate plugging. But I love these outfits because they represent a perfect summer weekend. The peach off the shoulder tank is sexy and sweet. Paired with beige skinny jeans, this is more unique than the norm choice of skinnys. I added a pair of green oversized teardrop earrings which gives this outfit a flirty, exotic appeal. The shoes are badass. I will admit that I have a few pairs that are similar but that's like saying two people are alike! These shoes were able to transition over to my sweet vintage flowery dress that I paired with dark blue chandelier earrings. In all, I could throw this into a bag and have the perfect clothing weekend. Just add boys!

2009-05-12T19:45:00.000-07:00

If you find these in every nook and cranny in your house, you are probably a lot like me.

Head Shots

2009-04-23T18:46:00.000-07:00

Just wanted to post a few things I adore for summer. Check out my lovely assistant!

Handsome in Hats...

2009-04-20T08:27:00.000-07:00

You will see that I will post about men's fashion from time to time. I see no reason why the men should get off the hook when it comes to attire. After all, there is nothing hotter than a well dressed man. I know women, including myself, who have even excluded a man from their "goodies" just for an awkward pair of shoes he wore. A funky look on a man can kill the mood. Hopefully, everyone is with me here in 2009 and knows that being born with a penis no longer excuses you from having style. And lots of men are embracing this and we love them for it, right? One example is the extra effort of wearing a hat, which I really appreciate. Men can up the anty considerably by adding some head gear. The men above, albeit gorgeous with or without hats, prove that putting the thought into this finishing touch is well worth it. Now, please allow the disclaimer that these are men that I personally find attractive with or without hats, but with some of them (Tombstone) the hats really help. So as far as the men in hats idea goes, men in hats are SEXY plain and simple. But with all good things, both sexes must use a thing called moderation. Fact- hats can be wonderful for men and women. Don't miss out on the fun, just use caution. I reccommend having at least 3 or 4 great hats to wear from time to time. However, you want to avoid being the "token" hat person. For hats to have the desired affect, you can't abuse this option (as in optional- AKA- not an every day, mandatory thing! Sadly one of these men does this, but I still love you George) . Also, a good hat cannot save a bad outfit- so please coordinate wisely! We want to know that you are choosing a hat and not just covering up a bald spot or bad hair day. So, choose your hats and their frequency carefully and this look will be a close friend. Not to confuse with a best friend like a bag or favorite pair of earrings, but you two will be able to "hang out" every once in a while and have a great time.

Crafty = Cool

2009-04-17T21:15:00.000-07:00

I was rummaging around in the craft store and found some of the most unique beads. These aren't your mama's homemade necklaces and earrings. I was impressed by the style and colors. For only about $15 I was able to make all of this. Not to mention the pure enjoyment I got out of getting to use wire cutters and turning on my brain for a hour or so. As adults, we forget how fun it is to make crafts. We have become so used to everything ready made. Now, of course I didn't actually make these beads. All I did was attach them to earring and necklace hardware. But, I felt like I had just hand carved Michaelangelo's "David". My point is that it feels good to make any darn thing- even if you don't really make it. You probably won't catch me in the faux flower arrangement class any time soon, but you get my point.

By the way, if you're birthday is coming up and I like you, one of these is probably for you- I was never really good at surprises.

What crayon are you...really?

2009-04-14T12:28:00.001-07:00

I was once asked what color crayon I think I am and it left an imprint on my mind. I immediately said that I was green. However, over the next few days it was almost overwhelming that I knew I was not green. I only wanted to be green when in fact I am clearly orange. So, once I accepted that I am and have always been orange, I embraced it! Now I love the color orange and wear it a lot. Each time I do I get the wonderful sensation of being comfortable in my own skin. Orange is unusual, fun, bold, and beautiful in it's own unique way. So think about what color you truly are. I promise you will "just know". And once you know, choose some clothing or jewelry in that hue. Wearing your color will give you an added level of confidence because you are proudly accepting ownership of the amazing identity you were born with. Confidence is sexy. So is identity. And identity is just as important to people, as it is to each and every crayon in the box.

Are we getting played by plaid?

2009-04-13T19:55:00.000-07:00

Okay, so what's all this hoopla about plaid? And can we really go there if we're not tweens? Yes and no. I suggest that you choose it carefully and do NOT overdo it. If you want to jump on the bandwagon I say proceed because it looks like fun...but proceed with caution. I think this top is very cute. You could pair this with jeans, cute heels and a little jewelry and this is bar worthy. However, what you need to steer away from is taking it to the extreme. Putting too much of the same genre together is a disaster. An example of this would be: this shirt, casual jeans, boots and little or no jewelry. Now I know some may disagree with what I'm about to say, but you almost always look like a hillbilly in dressed down plaid. So dress it up! Have fun with it and make this look modern. This can be sexy if your jeans make your butt look good and you aren't a mess from the neck up. Give this a clean an polished look and you may meet your future husband in it. That's my plan! So go ahead, buy one or maybe two plaid items (although that's pushing it)...just make sure you know that these are trends that will quickly expire and end up in your Goodwill pile. Not because they are not cool shirts with the prospect of longevity, but more so because after this season everyone will be so sick of seeing plaid you won't be safe in public wearing it without strangers throwing their lunch at you. So get it while it's hot people.

The sun is out and your accessories should be too Part II

2009-04-10T17:50:00.001-07:00

Of course, when the weather changes, so do your bags. I am a one or two kind of bag girl. When I saw this hot pink clutch I was convinced that this was just the thing for me this season. It is first of all, adorable, and secondly more modern, which is the style I lean towards now. I will certainly not carry this out a lot, but when I do, I will feel young, free, and most importantly, fun- which is how all 28 year old women should feel. Life is just beginning ladies!

I have my work bag, which I usually carry every day for months, and then a few "going out" bags. This season I opted for this white work bag. It's classy, spunky and functional. Who says you have to have an arm strap? My hands work just fine. I know this is somewhat reminiscent of a bowling bag, but that is why you do NOT pair this with jeans. To have the effect it was intended for you must carry it with nice respectable work clothes. Ha, that sounded so serious!

When it comes to jewelry, this year I feel like it's all about glamour. Go ahead- wear that gaudy, luxurious gold. Mix and match big pieces. Rhinestone and fake gems are your friend. Nobody can afford bling in this economy! I personally am about to sell my old wedding ring. Although I will admit, it was gorgeous and classy as hell, it always held me back from wearing other jewelry. Oh well, out with the old and in with the new! Here are some of my latest finds.

The sun is out and your accessories should be too

2009-04-10T17:03:00.000-07:00

What is the first thing I think of when it starts getting warm? Accessories! We spend the colder months really letting our fashion guard down. I know you've done it- just slap on a pair of jeans and sweater with little regard for what you're exposing the world to. Hair a mess, cloddy boots with thick socks, coat that does nothing for you...I understand! When it's cold, we don't feel as good. It's harder to take the time to look nice when you don't feel good. I know you probably put some effort in some nights, with knee high boots and cute tops, but c'mon...we all know nothing beats the cuteness of spring and summer clothing.

I have leaned more and more lately toward more simple clothing combined with extravagant extras. This may be because I am maturing but it just makes sense. I never thought I would fall for the "little black dress" idea. And maybe I haven't exactly bought into that, but there is something to be said for clean, simple lines. So try keeping it simple, and then throw on a funky shoe, hot necklace, and carry a crazy bag. Trust me, you'll get it...

So, of course the season starts with shopping to ring in the new temp. Let's check out some of my new shoes.

I think this is a good start. I probably won't buy another pair of shoes this season, unless something just haunts me. You know how sometimes you see something in a store and just cannot get any peace until you go back and get it? Well, hopefully that won't happen to me with shoes since I already have them shoved in every crevice of my apartment.

The love of my life has a price tag

2009-04-10T16:46:00.000-07:00

Okay, so here is a little about me and how I came to be addicted- there I said it!- to fashion. Ever since I was young I adored anything I could adorn my body with. My favorite pic of me, now lost, is a portrait of myself as a four year old wearing a mini skirt and hooker boots and looking all too amused. I suppose I am still that same girl. I have little regard for what others think about my style. I've convinced myself that I have a wealth of knowledge on this subject and am now ready to share it with those of you who care. Those of you who don't care- well you're an asshole. Anyway, I thought I would post a pic of an accessory that is definitive of "me". In essence, if I "was" an object of fashion, what would I be? I decided on this bracelet. It's wild, fun, simple, daring. These are all the things I aspire to embody in fashion.

Now before we begin let me get one thing straight! I am only concerned with HOW THINGS LOOK. Notice I did not mention that things have to be expensive or name brand. I am not a label whore! I truly believe that most savvy people are not concerned with impressing others with monetary value. I hope you agree, or you will hate this blog. Now, let's get it on!